We've all had the displeasure of going through the process of getting over someone you really cared for and maybe even *gasp* Loved. Unfortunately for me it was so long between the last one and this one that I apparently have forgotten all the rules. I've tried the whole try to call and replace him with someone else but just like when you're on a diet and you say you're going to not eat sweets, the only thing you can think about it sweets so eventually you cave in? Well It's so much like that. So I'm going to test a new theory. Keep in mind that this theory is currently in practice so I'll have to make up/edit as I go.
Rule #1
Block him from all forms of internet contact, if possible. I'm talking facebook, twitter, email, etc. This is going to narrow down that the only way to contact him is via phone. (This is important)
Rule #2
Call. Yes Call. This is going back to the sweets/diet analogy. If you're anything like me he's the only one you're craving. The key to calling, is to call at a time when you know he probably WON'T answer. This is the disappointment phase. Again like on a diet when give into a desert and it's not even as good as you thought it should have been. It's like "I ruined my diet for this?" If you get disappointed enough at not hearing his voice, you won't even bother calling.
Rule#3
No texting and this corresponds to rule 2 try not to call from your own phone. Remember the goal is still NOT to talk to him and you don't want to be able to go back on last month's phone bill and see his number listed a hundred times. Use another person's phone or in my case, the house phone because that bill isn't in my name so I don't see it.
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